Tuesday, December 21, 2021

Trazodone Induced Dreams: The mob

 


December 21, 2021

No clue what was going on in this dream, last night. I was watching Addicted to Marriage; My 600 lb life; and Too Large before going to bed. I even stopped watching crime shows, especially anything on Discovery ID, before going to bed because the dreams can get weird. Nothing to do with gangsters and mobsters. Definitely confused the hell out of me. I seem to remember more dreams when they have people, I know in them.

Here is the parts, I remember. 

I was at my grandma's old house, with a few friends and their kids. Me and one of the kids, went for a walk. The kid told me, that his mama said she didn't care if I got covid walking with him, but he didn't need to get it. I was upset. When we tried to walk back in the house, a mobster stopped us by aiming a gun in our face. I don't know if he was going to shoot us or not. He didn't after we told him, we wanted to go in the house and see our family. He was upset because his friends doesn't consider him family and let us go. 

I went in the house to collect my kid but he wasn't there. No one knew where my child was. Apparently, I had left the house for a while. The friend was upset but I had a mob situation. 

Then some way, some how, I left my kid with a friend, to run errands, but got chased by the mob. They was looking for someone but Im not sure who.  


Another part:

The mob was after us in my grandma house. Me and a few relatives went to hide upstairs because it was more secure. I played dead and didn't get shot. It was hard because I still had to breath, while also scanning the room to see if everyone was ok. 

Another Part: 

I went over someone else's house and the gangsters came in the house, ransacking the place. I hide in the bathroom because of the secured door. But when other people came in the house, the door mysteriously disappeared and I could be seen. 

Another Part: 

Someone brought my grandma's house because they thought the family was dead, even though we was playing dead. Some of the family took on another identity. A tennis player figured out who one of us was because of an award. 

One of my relatives got on tv and was talking about a tennis championship, they won as a kid. The other tennis player realized they was the opponent and got upset because they thought my relative had died. 

The End: I hope I never have a dream like this again. I had strange dreams, like this before, but I haven't had them in a long time. 

Friday, December 17, 2021

Trazodone-Induced Dreams: Missing the Bus.


December 17, 2021

This was definitely one of the strangest dreams, I had, this week.

I had to take my youngest to school because he missed the school bus. I wasn't sure whether to take a rideshare or public transit to get him there. I went to sign him into the office, but there was not a late sign-in sheet. I had to bring Brad with me. 

The lobby then turned into a high school reunion, where I was hugging and greeting old classmates. While I was dealing with Kalen, the group headed to the park (where did it come from) across the street from the school. 

I also had to meet with the new nurse #4 to give her some meds for the month. Kalen was in the nurses office, as well. The nurse mixed his meds in with ranch powder mix and water. Kalen drunk the mix through a straw and loved it. I thought it was a strange way to dispense medication, but then again, it's Kalen and you have to get creative sometimes. 

I walked back outside, where a 9th grader was bringing his brother to school. He wanted to ask a question to the secretary. Since his brother missed the bus, He also missed his bus to a field trip and wanted to know what to do next. The security guard did not want to hear the 9th graders question and wanted him to leave the school. I also was asked to leave when I tried to ask the same question. 

Now, Brad was missing. Where was Brad? He was at the park with the high school reunion, jumping in the bounce house. I grabbed my kid and we headed to the bus stop. I had an appt and needed to head back home to take a bath, then catch the bus. Or do I catch an rideshare, even though I don't have enough money to do that, and head home and take a bath. Maybe just head to the appt, regardless of hygiene. 

The public bus stop turned into my grandma's house, where I used to catch the school bus. I apparently also had some craft supplies, set up outside, and was grabbing some to take home with me. I also needed a truck to pack up the majority of the supplies to take home. I had rainbow glitter, shoe slime (whatever that is), and other bottles of colorful stuff. I then woke up to get Kalen ready for school. 

Sunday, December 12, 2021

Trazdone-Induced Dreams: Attack of the Ex

 


December 12, 2021

I had my first Trazodone nightmare, two nights ago. An ex, who lives in another state, wanted me to testify for him, in court, saying he wasn't there, doing whatever he wasn't supposed to be doing. I live in Texas. He lives in GA. I also had an appointment or something, I was doing the same day. If the offense or defense lawyers did any research, they would realize, I wasn't in the state and I was busy at the time, but the ex was persistent. 

He traveled to Texas to convince me to lie for him in court. He didn't care I would be locked up and away from the kids. One of which, he did not even ask about. He tried choking and strangling me. He tried dragging me onto the train tracks, while the train was coming. He tried to harm my niece. He was seriously angry, I would not lie for him and risk my freedom for someone, who does not care about me. 

Both me and my niece tried to escape from him and thought we was free. Nope, he found out where we lived and banged on the door hard, shooting a gun in the air. The niece was able to escape through the window, outside to a small park, where our other relatives was. I wasn't able to squeeze all my belly through the window. 

The small park had my cousin, Chad, who is in college; his grandmother (my great aunt, who passed away, a few years ago). The park had trees and the clouds was bright-white, like we was in Heaven or something. 

Tuesday, December 7, 2021

A year of new old firsts

 


2021: Just when you thought 2020 was interesting, meet 2021. A lot of things, have happened-some of which, I'm not ready to talk about, just yet. The past few months, things have gotten back to pre-covid, sort of normal. Some things--I needed other people to remind me to do again because I got used to not doing them--if that makes sense. 

The Laundry Room

First, I thought I could use the laundry room again. My case manager assigned me a task to wash my bigger blankets in the laundry room. Last year, I had to stop using the laundry room because both of my kids would run off, while I am loading up clothes. Since the laundry rooms are in  the middle of  parking lots, this is not a good idea, so I stopped going. My apartment is within a few minutes walk of three laundry rooms. 

but first, I needed a new laundry card. I let a neighbor use, my old card, and never got it back. Since I wasn't able to use the facilities, I wasn't too worried about asking for it back. I also been noticing the laundry room, I mostly used, has not been opened lately. I walked to the office to get a new card and was told, the machine did not have any cards. I had to wait for a new shipment to arrive. 

I showed up again to ask about the cards and was told, the office is not ordering any new cards because of the sale of the complex. The staff also said they are not fixing any broke machines and some laundry rooms are permanently closed.  We do not have to officially move until October 2022. How are residents supposed to do laundry? I have a portable washer (Thank you very much to the lovely lady, who helped me get one), but it only washes bigger items. 

The spin side is too small for my bigger comforters. I guess they will be air-dried or I will use SudShare to launder them, when I have extra monies. Still can't find anyone, who knows how to fix the belts on my portable dryer. Maybe if I can get a job, I can just buy a new one. 

The Walk Back to Kalen's School

I thought about this post, after taking my first bus ride and walk back to Kalen's school to drop off medication. I have been using my mom or niece or a rideshare to take me, since the covid-times began. I gave up riding the bus, also during the pandemic because of my oldest's eloping issues. I definitely was tired of chasing him; pulling him back from running into the road; and having police involvement. 

The nurse needed meds. My oldest was not with me. My youngest was at school. 10 minute bus ride. 15-20 minute walk. Sonic, McDonalds, Burger King, and Wendy's are in the area so I can grab me some food, on the way back to the bus stop. I checked the bus app to see how many tickets, I had left, and hopped the bus. 

The walk back felt different but some things remained the same. No sidewalks. No bus stop on the other side of the highway, so I don't have to navigate across the highway.  I have been living in Greenspoint since 2018. I guess everything will change after Kalen goes to intermediate. 😂😂😂

Had to navigate around water, vehicles, and mud. The bridge from the bus stop, to the highway and school-also was wider and had new decorative pieces though. Finally, the bus stop needs seating, especially when I have waited up to an hour, to go back home, in the past. If you miss it, then you just have to stand and wait or sit on the ground. Maybe bring a folding chair with you (Good idea Stacie).

The Walk Back to McDonalds and Other Food Places

A Facebook Friend (Thank you Rain) reminded me, I can walk to Mcdonalds again. I haven't walked to McDonalds, in a while, because it is also an Autism trap. Don't need kids running off, while we wait to cross the highway. I can get some breakfast, after I put Kalen on the bus. I also have started walking back to Family Dollar; the local, non-cheap grocery store; plus the Jack in the Box and McDonalds near the mall, for the first time. 

I thought the walk would take longer, but it took as long as walking to the highway McDonalds, which opened up new possibilities for me, if I wanted to walk to other stores and restaurants versus calling Uber Eats or Grubhub or Postmates. I have ordered many times from Montereys and Pollo Campero, over the years. Maybe I could get a part-time job in the area, provided the job offers flexible scheduling. I even walked home from the doctor, the other day, because I didn't feel like riding 2 busses, with a stop or two, to the .99 and Jack in the Box. 

Riding the Bus again

I started back riding the bus again, even with kids. Brad even crossed the scary bridge to get to church, without walking off. I have done, a few focus groups, around Houston, to earn extra income. The pandemic has taught me, I need people. I may be an introvert but I need to socialize with other humans, besides my kids. Nothing like staying at home with semi-verbal kids, for 10 days, with no one else to talk to, besides people on the internet. I hope a shut down never happens again, but glad I have access to the crisis line. 

2 Services at Church

I was happy when special needs re-opened back up, at church, last year, but we could only attend one service to allow more kids to attend. I love virtual Sunday School but there are more distractions at home--kids, kicking the walls and doors; asking for snacks; crawling all over me; kicking me in the face and neck. This year, we could attend both services, in person again. YAYYAYAYAYAYYAY. I was happy to see my people. Of course, I had a few setbacks and haven't been able to attend like I wanted to. Rain is a hinderance because I use a wagon for Kalen and he doesn't like rain on his head. Both me and Kalen had cold and congestion, which took us out for 2 weeks. Don't want to get other people sick. 

Other Firsts:

  • Completed a customer service experience trainee program through ClimbHire. ClimbHire will also help me get a job. 
  • Completed a healthy families virtual class through Avance Frameworks. They gave some nice incentives for completion. 
  • Of course, I was diagnosed with depression, in August, and now taking Trazodone and Lexapro.
Thank you and have a blessed day



Trazadone-Induced Dreams: The Voice and Truth of God.

 




12/7/2021

Last Night, I fell asleep watching Hoarders, between 10 and 11 pm, CST. I was super tired of completing a project for a class in software development, I'm taking. I took my Trazodone (50mg) earlier plus some CBD for sleep, because I really needed to sleep. 

Eventually, I had a dream, a dream, not like any other dream, because they are Trazadone-induced. I had strange and vivid dreams, in the past, but none like these. 

I was dreaming about the Masked Singer. The judges was Tim Allen, some woman, and Dick Van Dyke. It was time for a singer, to be unmasked, and one of her clues, was she was the voice of God. 

This lead Dick van Dyke and Tim Allen to go into a long monologue about the voice and truth of our heavenly father. It wasn't too preachy. They included bible verses. The audience was enthralled and wasn't offended. 

Once the monologue was finished, the singer with the deep voice of God, was revealed, and it was Eartha Kitt, who sung a short song, and then went for coffee in the sound booth. 

When I woke up, David Jeremiah was on A&E, discussing the truth of God. I watched a bit of him and Joyce Meyer before passing back out. 

I do wish my oldest was more verbal. Brad also takes Trazadone. This may explain his screaming and laughing in his sleep. 

Thursday, December 2, 2021

The Wonder of Creation by Louie Giglio Review (Momentum Influencer Network).

 Disclaimer: This post contains Amazon Affiliate Links. 

Many thanks to HarperCollins Christian Publishing for providing this product/product information for review. Opinions are 100% my own. I did receive the product in exchange for this review and post.

The wonder of creation


I read the Wonder of Creation, by Louie Giglio, in exchange for honest review from the Momentum Influencer Network. The book is a children's devotional book, with over 100 devotionals. I received a hardback copy. 

The book features illustrations and photography. Each devotional also features a scientific fact or an activity for kids to explore their faith; a short bible verse, and a prayer. The book also can be incorporated into a homeschool STEM curriculum or bedtime reading. The scientific facts include info about space, Earth, animals, and people. Giglio does provide, on page 5, the page numbers for each of the facts. 

I wanted this to be able to spread the love of God to my kids. With Kalen especially, books needs a lot of pictures with minimal words. He likes pointing to the pics and identifying what's in the pic, either saying the actual word or asking, "What's that?". With Brad, things also need to be short and simple. 

The book is easy to read. It also comes with a built-in ribbon bookmark. 

The book is available in Kindle, Audiobook, and Hardback format.



Friday, November 26, 2021

Sudshare Review

 Disclaimer: I received a promo code to test out the service. 



I reviewed Sudshare, in exchange for honest review. Sudshare is a laundry pick-up and delivery service. I had seen similar services in the area, for the past year. 






What made me interested in Sudshare:

I have a portable washer, which is great for washing the majority of my clothes, but spinning the excess water out, is another issue. With my comforters and blankets, the water has to be squeezed out or drip dried, in the bathroom, until I can place them on my dryer racks. (I had a portable dryer, but it ran into issues, so I bought dryer racks from Wal-Mart. I was using the laundry room until the pandemic happened.)

I was reminded, a few weeks ago, by my case manager, I can use the laundry room again to wash and dry my clothes, especially blankets. Yes, I went to the store and got some cash back with a grocery order. I walked into the office to buy a new card and load it (gave the last one to my neighbor. I wasn't using it anyway). I was told by the staff, the laundry machine has no cards available and to come back in a few days, when they have more. 

I came back, a few days later, to find out the complex has no plans to re-load the laundry card machine. They are also not fixing any broken washers and dryers because the complex has been sold to the city to build a pond. Some laundry rooms have been permanently locked.  We don't have to move until October 2022, but that is still a long time to be without a washer or dryer in the complex. The complex has 700 units and at least 4 laundry rooms, within a 5 minute walk of me. What about the other residents too?

I need a way to wash my blankets and comforters. I also may need a break from laundry for the week because I am overwhelmed. Enter Sudshare. 

You can download the app and schedule someone to come pick up, wash, dry, fold, and bring back your laundry. Laundry is $1 per pound with $20 minimum. If you have a small load, you still will be charged $20. 

Comforters and puffier items are charged a bit more per item. 

You also can tip the sudster, within 48 hours, who provided a valuable service. 

Next, communication. You can communicate with your Sudster, once they select your order. Communication is continued until the order is delivered. Then, you need to contact the company with any issues. 

Extra service:

You can include special instructions in the app, such as using a special detergent (must provide) or fabric softener (must provide) or hangers (must provide). 

The app is available on Google Play and the Apple Store. 

I used the service twice--one with the promo code and one with my own money. I loved both Angela and Reginald. Laundry was brought back the same day with Angela and the next day with Reginald. Since the clothes was already folded, it made it easy to put the clothes up quicker, before my kids messed over them. 

Sunday, November 21, 2021

Trazadone Induced Dream. 11/21/2021


I have had a lot of strange dreams since I have been taking Trazodone for sleep, for the past month or so.  Last night's dream really stood out. 

Man meets woman

A man meets a woman, who owns an apartment building, by squatting in an apartment, once occupied by her deceased son, and would not leave. He notices the apartment sign, on the sidewalk, steals the sign, and moves into the apartment. 

Fast forward to man and woman, living as a couple, on separate floors and separate beds. She slept downstairs and he slept upstairs. They was fussing from both of their beds, and his mom stepped in and asked why they always fought. The mom told the son, he shouldn't have squatted in the woman's son's apartment. 

This proceeds to a fight where the woman is telling the man, he is selfish, always thinking about his self. She shows him, her calender of things, she has to do, because he never showed any interested. She stopped placing her tasks on the family calendar because of his lack of interest. 

Making of the Band

A girl group is forming, with a girl, resembling, Nicole Byers, as the lead. The group can sing but lacks stage performance. Jenna Van Oy is the group's performance coach and trains them, while they are live on stage, in front of fans, cheering them on. Nicole #2 tries complicated dance moves, failing multiple times, and even fell into the audience. Jenna feels the live tries will make for a better band. 

Definitely will post more dreams, provided I remember them :-)

God with Us: A journey home review (Momentum Influencer Network)

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I read God with Us, a journey home, by Jeremy Pierre, in exchange for honest review from the Momentum Influencer Network. I received a paperback copy. 

The book is also available in Kindle and Audible versions on Amazon. 


The book is a children's book, which teaches kids, Earth is not our home, Heaven is. The story is told from the perspective of two, unnamed, angels. The book chose not to give the angels names because the main character of the story--the book, and in real life, is Jesus. 

The book is written in a poem, like, narrative format. Each chapter focuses on a different bible story, from Genesis to Revelation. The chapters are quick reads, great for kids, who may not have the best attention spans, like my kids. 

Kalen loves books, with few words and a lot of pictures. He likes calling out things in the pictures. I can read a chapter and show him the pics before he goes back to Youtubing a kitchen skit. I can teach him about God, for those few moments.

You can purchase the book, using the link above. The book is prime-eligible. 





Tuesday, November 2, 2021

Twin Tales: Alike and Different Book Review (iRead Book Tours)

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I received Twin Tales, Alike and Different, in exchange for honest review from iRead Book Tours. The book was written by Brielle and Nadia Dupervi. 

My Review: 

First, the book has simple language and amazing illustrations. The book tells the story of Alexia and Denise, who are twin, African-American, girls. They love to play and they love their family, but they are not alike, they are different. They may share the same face, but they have different skills and abilities. 

As a special needs parent, I definitely understand. My kids are 20 and 10. They share five diagnoses, including severe autism, but they are so different. Each kid has their own skills and abilities. My oldest loves to eat; watch youtube; and play video games. My oldest doesn't like sour cream or corn chips, unless it is mixed into something else. He doesn't like bananas. He also doesn't eat most sweets, but he loves ice cream, sour gummies, and oreos. Brad definitely doesn't like the biscuit at Mcdonalds and Jack in the box. 

My youngest is severe autism but he is more mentally advanced, age wise. He was delayed in everything, but made significant progress over the years. When it comes to food, Kalen is more picky. He also doesn't like the biscuits at Mcdonalds and Jack in the box, but he loves chicken, fries, chips, and sweets. He loves ice cream, chocolates, some cookies. He also will play with blocks, cars, and his kitchen playset, while my oldest never really took to toys. My oldest does like simple toys like blocks and other similar stacking toys. 

You can purchase the book, in hardback or paperback, using the link above. The book is prime eligible. The book is also available on Kindle Unlimited. You can read more about Twin Tales below and check out other bloggers on the book tour. 

Thank you

Stacie


 



Join Us for This Tour from October 25 to November 19
 
Book Details:
Book Title:  Twin Tales: Alike and Different by Brielle and Nadia Dupervil
Category: Children's Fiction (Ages 3-7), 28 pages
Genre:  Children
Publisher:  RiaJay Publishing
Release date:  October 2021
Content Rating:  G - Suitable for all readers.
 
Book Description: 
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Imagine having someone that is just like you in the world. Or what if there were not just like you, but everyone thought they were? Twin sisters Alexia and Denise might look alike on the outside, but they are very different on the inside. Join the sisters as they reveal what makes them unique. An enduring story of siblings who share a strong bond that parents will appreciate, and children will love.
 
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​Brielle has a bold and bubbly personality and never meets a stranger. You can call her the life of the party because there is never a dull moment when she is around. Brielle is a curious conversationalist who will talk to anyone who will listen.

Nadia is a soft spoken, articulate, gentle spirit. Initially she is reserved, but once comfortable she will win you over with her contagious laughter and the silly jokes she keeps in her back pocket for the right time. Nadia is caring and always does what she can to help others feel better. She is very in tune with her emotions and very direct when expressing them.

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