What have I learned from failed relationships?

story lane prompt

1.Do not ignore the red flags. If something don't seem right, investigate, and then resolve the issue.
2.Speak your mind, when something is wrong. Don't hold emotions in
3.Do not get married, unless you are ready.
4. Be upfront and honest. Expect the same from your mate.
5. Do not have sex with exes. They are exes for a reason.
6. Sex is not always the answer to problems.
7. It's ok to compromise on some things, but on others, you need to stand your ground
8. if he lies about having kids, leave him be
9. if he lies about living with, getting money from, and contacting an ex, leave him be.
10. Sex does not equal love. A sexual relationship is not a romantic relationship. Minimize your feelings or you will get hurt.